Fan, Neighbor, Peer: personalised requests under 200 characters
Short, specific, about them, no ask. Three shapes cover almost every stranger.
Fan: 'Hey [name], followed your post on [topic]. Your point about X was genuinely different from what I usually see. Would love to stay connected.' Neighbor: 'Noticed we're both in [space] and share a city. I'm building a network of [industry] professionals - would love to connect.' Peer: mutual connection or college. Advanced: Contrarian, Shared Struggle, Specific Admirer. Rules: under 200 characters, about them, no pitch. Treat the DM's first line like an email subject line.
Personalisation is the difference between 2% and 30% acceptance.
